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		<title>By: Penny</title>
		<link>http://www.disabilitypride.com/2007/09/03/those-dammed-boots/#comment-4930</link>
		<dc:creator>Penny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 03:47:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It's a bit like beauty pageants constantly protesting, "But we're a scholarship competition!  We give so much money for young women to go to college!"  Okaaaaaaay, but if they really cared about young women, they could do all that &lt;i&gt;without&lt;/i&gt; the bikinis, the heels, the evening gowns....  

If the MDA really cared about the lives of people with neuromuscular disease, they would surely end the pitython, dump JL, apologize for forty-two years of inflicting pain, and get on with doing whatever good they can do, &lt;i&gt;led&lt;/i&gt; by the individuals and families affected.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s a bit like beauty pageants constantly protesting, &#8220;But we&#8217;re a scholarship competition!  We give so much money for young women to go to college!&#8221;  Okaaaaaaay, but if they really cared about young women, they could do all that <i>without</i> the bikinis, the heels, the evening gowns&#8230;.  </p>
<p>If the MDA really cared about the lives of people with neuromuscular disease, they would surely end the pitython, dump JL, apologize for forty-two years of inflicting pain, and get on with doing whatever good they can do, <i>led</i> by the individuals and families affected.</p>
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		<title>By: mike reynolds</title>
		<link>http://www.disabilitypride.com/2007/09/03/those-dammed-boots/#comment-4929</link>
		<dc:creator>mike reynolds</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 03:30:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>As a friend to countless friends who have and have passed on from Duchenes MD, I am sorry mda employee, but no amount of money you raise by portraying people with neuromuscular disease as pathetic could ever justify the negative effects of the telethon. The last tie i watched the telethon was to see mattie stepanek, before that it was in 1993. The last conversation I had with my best friend he was upset because mda was refusing to pay for camp after age 21.  mda employee, will you grant my website an interview? maybe you can tell me why i should watch a sexist homophobic and ableist washed up comedian whose ex-pr guy tried to sue me? and it is Very paternalistic to consider that  Miss Lucas "doesn't know" how to access MDA's services. She probably has more education than you, actually, come to thi nk of it, i probably do as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a friend to countless friends who have and have passed on from Duchenes MD, I am sorry mda employee, but no amount of money you raise by portraying people with neuromuscular disease as pathetic could ever justify the negative effects of the telethon. The last tie i watched the telethon was to see mattie stepanek, before that it was in 1993. The last conversation I had with my best friend he was upset because mda was refusing to pay for camp after age 21.  mda employee, will you grant my website an interview? maybe you can tell me why i should watch a sexist homophobic and ableist washed up comedian whose ex-pr guy tried to sue me? and it is Very paternalistic to consider that  Miss Lucas &#8220;doesn&#8217;t know&#8221; how to access MDA&#8217;s services. She probably has more education than you, actually, come to thi nk of it, i probably do as well.</p>
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		<title>By: mda employee</title>
		<link>http://www.disabilitypride.com/2007/09/03/those-dammed-boots/#comment-4928</link>
		<dc:creator>mda employee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 01:28:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>also, Carrie Ann Lucas

if your family members have not had any thing given to them that is not provided by  your insurance from MDA... be it leg braces, wheel chairs, repairs to equipment, rides to and from doctor's visits and an opportunity to  go to summer camp then your local MDA isn't doing their job and you should contact the national office in Arizona and let them know. I work with our healthcare service coordinator and i have set up PO's for all of the above and paid invoice's for all of the above... put your foot down and say something... are your family members registered with us because we cant help if we don't know who you are...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>also, Carrie Ann Lucas</p>
<p>if your family members have not had any thing given to them that is not provided by  your insurance from MDA&#8230; be it leg braces, wheel chairs, repairs to equipment, rides to and from doctor&#8217;s visits and an opportunity to  go to summer camp then your local MDA isn&#8217;t doing their job and you should contact the national office in Arizona and let them know. I work with our healthcare service coordinator and i have set up PO&#8217;s for all of the above and paid invoice&#8217;s for all of the above&#8230; put your foot down and say something&#8230; are your family members registered with us because we cant help if we don&#8217;t know who you are&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: mda employee</title>
		<link>http://www.disabilitypride.com/2007/09/03/those-dammed-boots/#comment-4927</link>
		<dc:creator>mda employee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Sep 2007 01:16:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>mda works hard all year long to raise money for the local families that need it. im sorry that you hate those boots but those boots are out there for good reason. everyday i help someone in our community and it makes me feel good. i don't have pity for anyone i just want to help in any way i can. i spoke on the phone with a woman the other day who just found out that her 8 month old baby has spinal muscular atrophy type II I can't imagine having a child and finding out 8 months later that something is wrong with it's health. the woman was scared and i hoped i was helpful to her. im not trying to start anything i would just like you to explain to me why your blog is making me feel like i should not be proud of all of the hard work that i put in everyday to help others. once again im not doing this to brag "i work with the disabled" I have family members who are disabled and blind...I do this because i want to have some purpose in my life by helping others.
Thanks for your time.
MDA employee who loves their job very much.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>mda works hard all year long to raise money for the local families that need it. im sorry that you hate those boots but those boots are out there for good reason. everyday i help someone in our community and it makes me feel good. i don&#8217;t have pity for anyone i just want to help in any way i can. i spoke on the phone with a woman the other day who just found out that her 8 month old baby has spinal muscular atrophy type II I can&#8217;t imagine having a child and finding out 8 months later that something is wrong with it&#8217;s health. the woman was scared and i hoped i was helpful to her. im not trying to start anything i would just like you to explain to me why your blog is making me feel like i should not be proud of all of the hard work that i put in everyday to help others. once again im not doing this to brag &#8220;i work with the disabled&#8221; I have family members who are disabled and blind&#8230;I do this because i want to have some purpose in my life by helping others.<br />
Thanks for your time.<br />
MDA employee who loves their job very much.</p>
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		<title>By: Dread1myn</title>
		<link>http://www.disabilitypride.com/2007/09/03/those-dammed-boots/#comment-4914</link>
		<dc:creator>Dread1myn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 03:05:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Carrie,

What a powerful post! I'm not sure if you remember me, but I used to live in Denver. I last saw you in Washington, DC, when I was living there. It was with Not Dead Yet at the Supreme Court, maybe a couple of years ago -- my memory is not the best. You had Adrienne with you. 

Now, I am in Rochester, NY, where I have been for almost a year. I just wanted to thank you for such a powerful post, and to say hi.

Anita</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Carrie,</p>
<p>What a powerful post! I&#8217;m not sure if you remember me, but I used to live in Denver. I last saw you in Washington, DC, when I was living there. It was with Not Dead Yet at the Supreme Court, maybe a couple of years ago &#8212; my memory is not the best. You had Adrienne with you. </p>
<p>Now, I am in Rochester, NY, where I have been for almost a year. I just wanted to thank you for such a powerful post, and to say hi.</p>
<p>Anita</p>
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		<title>By: Carrie Ann Lucas</title>
		<link>http://www.disabilitypride.com/2007/09/03/those-dammed-boots/#comment-4912</link>
		<dc:creator>Carrie Ann Lucas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 02:19:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I take the opposite approach.  There are so many lies about what MDA actually does.  I know I've never received a free piece of equipment from MDA.  My young family members who have MDA diseases have never been to a free summer camp.  

I think the response is not to give money to MDA at all.  If someone is really wanting to give money to research, I guess giving it directly to the hospitals that do the research might be better.  

Frankly, the money would be much better spent, and would benefit people with all types of disabilities by giving it to advocacy organizations. Give money to your local ILC, ADAPT chapter, and if you are in Colorado, to organizations like the Colorado Cross-Disability Coalition.  These are the organizations that really make a difference in the lives of people with disabilities.  Giving money for research into neuromuscular diseases does nothing to improve the lives of people living with the diseases.  For 40 years we have heard Jerry Lewis claim we are millimeters away from a cure.  Yeah, and I have some swampland in Kansas to sell you.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I take the opposite approach.  There are so many lies about what MDA actually does.  I know I&#8217;ve never received a free piece of equipment from MDA.  My young family members who have MDA diseases have never been to a free summer camp.  </p>
<p>I think the response is not to give money to MDA at all.  If someone is really wanting to give money to research, I guess giving it directly to the hospitals that do the research might be better.  </p>
<p>Frankly, the money would be much better spent, and would benefit people with all types of disabilities by giving it to advocacy organizations. Give money to your local ILC, ADAPT chapter, and if you are in Colorado, to organizations like the Colorado Cross-Disability Coalition.  These are the organizations that really make a difference in the lives of people with disabilities.  Giving money for research into neuromuscular diseases does nothing to improve the lives of people living with the diseases.  For 40 years we have heard Jerry Lewis claim we are millimeters away from a cure.  Yeah, and I have some swampland in Kansas to sell you.</p>
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		<title>By: andreashettle</title>
		<link>http://www.disabilitypride.com/2007/09/03/those-dammed-boots/#comment-4910</link>
		<dc:creator>andreashettle</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 01:26:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I'm wondering if you have any advice on how people could give money to support research into MD without that money also supporting the pity-a-thon (oh, excuse me, TELE-a-thon)?

I ask because I've blogged on this too at &lt;a href="http://reunifygally.wordpress.com/2007/09/03/why-deaf-people-should-boycott-jerrys-telethon/" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://reunifygally.wordpress.com/2007/09/03/why-deaf-people-should-boycott-jerrys-telethon/&lt;/a&gt; and some of the people who left comments are arguing that it's still worthwhile supporting MD research because some forms of it do limit the life span, and one person says she doesn't like what Jerry says either  but supports what he does ... apparently because she doesn't see any other way to get money into research for MD.  I can't help but wonder if the campaign against Jerry's pity- er, tele-a-thon might go further if it were coupled with more education for other ways people can give.  Any advice on the best way to respond to some of the comments that have been left at my blog?

If you do choose to come look at my telethon post then I hope you'll also stay and look around at some of the posts I've done about the ADA Restoration Act of 2007, which I think is another subject that people with disabilities should be up in arms about.  And BLOGGING ABOUT!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m wondering if you have any advice on how people could give money to support research into MD without that money also supporting the pity-a-thon (oh, excuse me, TELE-a-thon)?</p>
<p>I ask because I&#8217;ve blogged on this too at <a href="http://reunifygally.wordpress.com/2007/09/03/why-deaf-people-should-boycott-jerrys-telethon/" rel="nofollow">http://reunifygally.wordpress.com/2007/09/03/why-deaf-people-should-boycott-jerrys-telethon/</a> and some of the people who left comments are arguing that it&#8217;s still worthwhile supporting MD research because some forms of it do limit the life span, and one person says she doesn&#8217;t like what Jerry says either  but supports what he does &#8230; apparently because she doesn&#8217;t see any other way to get money into research for MD.  I can&#8217;t help but wonder if the campaign against Jerry&#8217;s pity- er, tele-a-thon might go further if it were coupled with more education for other ways people can give.  Any advice on the best way to respond to some of the comments that have been left at my blog?</p>
<p>If you do choose to come look at my telethon post then I hope you&#8217;ll also stay and look around at some of the posts I&#8217;ve done about the ADA Restoration Act of 2007, which I think is another subject that people with disabilities should be up in arms about.  And BLOGGING ABOUT!</p>
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		<title>By: &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Protest Pity</title>
		<link>http://www.disabilitypride.com/2007/09/03/those-dammed-boots/#comment-4909</link>
		<dc:creator>&#187; Blog Archive &#187; Protest Pity</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 04 Sep 2007 00:01:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Carrie at Disability Pride&#160;writes about what it&#8217;s like to be a parent of children with disabilities on the day of the telethon. [...]</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>[&#8230;] Carrie at Disability Pride&nbsp;writes about what it&#8217;s like to be a parent of children with disabilities on the day of the telethon. [&#8230;]</p>
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